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The Quiet Customer

The loudest customer is rarely the most typical one.

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The Quiet Customer

The loudest customer is rarely the most typical one.

One person sends three emails, leaves two comments, and has a detailed opinion about the colour of a button.

Meanwhile, twenty other people used the thing, got what they needed, and went on with their day.

Guess whose feedback is easiest to remember.

This creates a strange problem when something is small.

There isn't enough data yet to average the noise out, so one strong opinion can start steering the whole operation.

A complaint becomes a redesign.

A feature request becomes a priority.

A single person saying "I would definitely pay for this if it had X" can cost a week of work before anyone checks whether a second person wants X.

The answer isn't to ignore the loud customer.

They may be right.

It's to go looking for the quiet ones too.

Watch what people do when they aren't telling you what they think.

Which page do they leave from?

What do they click before they buy?

Where do they stop?

What do the people who came back have in common?

Behaviour doesn't explain itself, but it gives the questions somewhere better to start.

And when direct feedback matters, ask more than the person who volunteered it.

A short question sent to ten quiet users is often more useful than a long conversation with the one who found the contact form.

The people who say nothing are still giving feedback.

It's just written in what they do.

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